Dau Mabil buried amid strained family relations and unanswered questions

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Nearly a year after he disappeared after going on a walk in Jackson and his body was discovered counties away in the Pearl River, Dau Mabil has been laid to rest, but questions about his death remain. 

The 34-year-old Belhaven resident was buried Sunday and a celebration of life ceremony was held and attended by family and friends from the area, said Spencer Bowley, the brother of Dau’s wife, Karissa.

However, several key members of Dau’s family, including his older brother and birth mother who traveled from a Kenyan refugee camp last year, were not present or informed beforehand. Bul Mabil said he learned about his brother’s burial through someone else – not a member of the Bowley family – and he hasn’t received a response from them since he reached out Sunday. 

“Why wouldn’t they reach out to us?” Bul Mabil asked during a Tuesday interview. 

Spencer Bowley defended his sister and family’s decision not to inform Bul Mabil ahead of time because they believed he would potentially make the funeral service complex. Mabil has accused members of the Bowley family of murdering his brother a number of times publicly on Facebook, which the family has continued to deny.  

“We frankly didn’t feel safe informing him of what we were doing,” he said Wednesday. 

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Pamela Griffin, the mother of Dau’s son, was told about the funeral beforehand and they were invited, but she and the boy were not able to attend, Spencer Bowley said. Griffin could not be reached for comment. 

Dau was buried months after two autopsies and a Capitol Police investigation were completed. 

Bul Mabil has raised concerns about whether his brother would be cremated, saying as early as last year that their culture does not permit it. Bowley said Wednesday that cremation was not part of the plan to put Dau to rest because his wife knew it was against his wishes. 

Dau and his brother came to Jackson in 2000 as “Lost Boys” of Sudan who fled war. They were among 50 boys who came to Missisisppi through the lend a hand of local churches.

Karissa Bowley reported her husband missing March 25, 2024, after he left their Belhaven home to walk around an area in town where the couple was known to go. 

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